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having trouble finding a female feeder

I'm a female feeder. Not looking for a feedee atm, but I am happy to give advice.

yes please 😊

Well, first off, what have you done thus far?

meaning like progress wise or like trying to get a feeder progress?

Getting a feeder. It's what you asked about.

yea ok about that i have looked around and talked to some on FF and feabie and even instagram but nun got back to me

Ok, but what is your approach? How do you talk to these women? I can't give advice if you don't give me something to work with. If you feel uncomfortable talking publicly, you can just shoot me a message.

well i just tell them where im from, how old i am, my SW and CW and GW , etc. What there looking in a feedee etc. but when ever we are done knowing this type of info about each other they dont get back to me

So, speaking as a feeder, I can't tell you how many times I'll have feedees messaging me with that kind of stuff. There's nothing compelling about it. No reason to pursue the conversation further.

Let me tell you how I met my feedee. He was the one to reach out to me, not the other way around. We connected on a personal level and discovered that we had a lot in common. Like, I'd talk to him even if we weren't being kinky.

So, when he asked me to be his feeder, I happily said yes.